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Siblings Sharing Space

by Susan Christy 07/07/2019

When you have kids sharing a room, there will be conflict. It just happens, no matter how much they get along, at some point, there is going to be a fight about something. Fights about tidiness, noise levels, or just about anything. Now sometimes your kids can come to some sort of solution without intervention by applying a little bit of creativeness. Other times you will need to step in and mediate a solution.

Creative Borders 

One option for ongoing sibling space sharing issues includes the traditional, but none too practical, splitting the room in half. You can do this any number of ways; painters’ tape may be the least damaging to flooring and walls, a border made of blankets, or a curtain panel hung from the ceiling. These options may give the roommates some sort of illusion they have separate private rooms. More than likely they will come to the conclusion they will need to compromise on some things to really make a life together more peaceful.

Layout the Lair 

If your kids have several areas of shared interest, they can start with those items when they set up their space. A “common” area, so to speak, can create a sense of camaraderie and bonding. From there you have them could move into planning the furniture layout and traffic flow. Maybe discuss schedules and who wakes up first and how the morning routine needs to play out. Next, an agreement on a bedtime routine can help avoid any conflicts when everyone is tired and out of patience. Finally, figuring out how and when things like studying, reading, friends hanging out or other activities will take place in the shared space. You may need a third-party mediator to help shape some of the details and provide an objective perspective on issues.

Contract for Compromise

Writing out the agreements and signing you will give each person ownership over the space. This way any issues can be settled by going over the written agreement. As time goes on, the deal can have amendments, but these need to be agreed upon by all before being added. When it comes to living together in harmony, healthy boundaries and common courtesy go a long way. When you can remember to show respect to the other person you can often iron out any issues about shared room space easily with little conflict. When moving kids into a shared bedroom space have each kid list a “rule” for their area, write it down and hang it up in the room.

Need extra space for your growing family? Talk to your real estate agent about a larger home in your budget.

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Susan Christy

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When it comes to real estate experience, few compare to Susan Christy. As a full-time Realtor for over 30 years, Susan has been successfully selling and finding homes for her clients since 1987, and her in-depth knowledge of the real estate process is hard to match. There are few challenges Susan hasn’t experienced and successfully resolved. She has not only the expertise to seamlessly close a real estate transaction, but the personal skills to instill a comfortable confidence, putting her clients at ease. She carefully listens, puts a plan in place, and follows through to the close of escrow and beyond. Susan is the real estate professional with the tact and skill to negotiate the highest return for her sellers and best possible price for her buyers: the true professional you want on your side.  

Susan holds a Bachelor’s degree in Psychology and a Master’s Degree in Education from Arizona State University and taught special education for four years prior to beginning her real estate career in 1987. She was raised in the Arcadia area of East Phoenix, where she has also raised her two daughters. Susan has been affiliated with Realty Executives for over 20 years, among the most highly respected real estate brokerages in Arizona, and has garnered many honors for superior sales performance, including the Phoenix Association of Realtors President’s Roundtable, Realty Executives 100% Club and Executive Club awards and the Realtor.com Online Marketing Award of Excellence. In addition, her superior performance has earned her membership in the Top Agent Network (TAN), as well as the CLHMS (Certified Luxury Home Marketing Specialist) and National Association of Realtors BPOR (Broker Price Opinion Resource) designations. She maintains active membership in the Luxury Home Tour Inc. of Arizona and the Arcadia Camelback Tour.  

Specializing in Phoenix, Arcadia, Scottsdale, and Paradise Valley, but experienced and able to assist with real estate needs in nearly all areas of the Valley, her goal is to provide superior service second to none. Her clients can expect expert representation, communication, and negotiation skills from contract to close, intensive attention to detail throughout all phases of the real estate transaction, and above all, integrity and professionalism. She is: Client Focused. Results Driven. Please feel free to contact Susan at any time to discuss how she can best assist you with your real estate needs.